Maybe you've heard this once or twice....

Shhh....just act like everything is fine and keep making dinner for your kids and your spouse.

Here, fill out this State form for an order of protection. Now, where is your evidence? No attorney

A free pretend attorney (?) for family court will be provided as your spouse has stolen all money.

You're going to Family Court to get protection for yourself or your kids? You can't go to work then

Your spouse with addiction issues is driving intoxicated with the children? Oh well. The police, family court, and nothing will be done about it.

WHAT? Your spouse took all the money even with automatic orders? You are Pro Se??? Ha! Go away.

Just think: "Eventually he/she will get what's coming to them some day" but nothing will be done.

An AFC will be provided for free but don't expect services because the AFC will be paid by the State regardless.

Be "the bigger person" and tolerate all of the abuse from your spouse (because we won't be helping)

Tell the kids that the divorce is the fault of your own AND your husband (not that he was a liar, cheater and/or thief) so that the children will be protected (at your cost).

You're a woman and expect equitable distribution of assets including the business? Surely, you were only the secretary and did little? (from your attorney and the business valuation)